Wednesday, January 27, 2010

The Leo Woman... does this characterize me?

So today I stumbled across this website. Dont ask me what exactly I was looking for when I found this or why I was looking for what I was looking for... hehehehe. anyway check it out. If you are a leo and a woman, tell me if it describes you. at first i was like 'no no its wrong! i'm not that way!' then i was like 'well maybe a little', but when i honestly compared it to myself with an open mind and without defense, i saw they yes it is me entirely whether i like to admit it or not. that doesnt mean i cant deviate from some things when i like, or that i cant change with the will to do so, but all in all, it generally is my personality. Check out the entire site here http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/leolovecomp.html


The Leo female possesses a flair for the dramatic and clearly has little use for the routine and ordinary. She tends to act as though she is always on stage, basking in the spotlight so everyone who is anyone is sure to be aware of her presence. She may want to be head of the house and at times, behave in a totally unreasonable fashion in order to get her own way. Still, she will listen to reason if her good heart and generosity are appealed to. Affectionate, kindhearted and sincere, women governed by Leo have a deep love of children and make for excellent mothers who adore their homes...but when it comes to being domestic, they prefer being served rather than serving as mistress of the castle. This female is plainly an incurable romantic, forever in love with love...but such love must include affection. Personally magnetic, she has no problem in attracting potential mates...and if any mate should become jealous of her many admirers, it would be best to not let it show. This is because the Leo woman believes, on some level, that she is entitled to as many compliments as others are willing to shower upon her. This is a female who likes to be admired, but cannot abide a mate to chastize her for simply doing what comes naturally. Although she may appear to want to be won, it will be necessary for any potential partner to allow this woman to do the winning. Being involved with a female ruled by Leo will certainly enhance any mate's skills at courting and seduction...provided such mate possesses sufficient wisdom and stamina to survive the course. If an individual would achieve true happiness with this woman, it will be necessary to display pride at her many accomplishments...and be proud of her on a personal level. She requires virtually constant flattery and devotion. Never ever must she be catigated or criticized in public...to do so marks the certain kiss of death for the relationship. Similarly, a partner must never try to deceive this woman in any way whatsoever. She possesses a high degree of honor that should never be trifled with...and should she find any mate unfaithful, then that mate is doomed to spend much time in the doghouse.


The Leo woman is usually blessed with an almost stately appearance and can achieve great elegance...although she is not necessarily interested in clothes as articles of fashion. This female possesses a rather regal air, a sympathetic disposition and excellent social qualities. The woman ruled by Leo is a passionate soul who can easily be loyal and loving when in a secure relationship where she feels she is loved. However, she can become vindictive or bitter when she is scorned. Because this female has such high standards in so many spheres of life, other people rarely come up to her expectations. Still, this is not usually a source of worry to her unless the individual concerned is one with whom she is intimately involved. The Leo woman can show love, forgiveness and kindness to complete strangers or mere acquaintances and yet, may be critical and almost harsh to her loved ones if she feels they have failed her in some way. This is a female who is proud, hard-to-get and expects much from any partner but she has the ability to be self-sacrificing and totally unselfish in a long term commitment. As a mother, she tends to be overly conscientious on occasion, expecting the usual high standards from her children...nevertheless, they will never lack love or affection. There is no doubt that the Leo woman expects a great deal of her family, but she is also prepared to give of her utmost in return. Altogether fascinating, this female is something of an ambitious golden girl who likes to be free and independent...until her heart has been won and then, she is self-sacrificial in her giving. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any potential mate to be gallant, courteous and chivalrous. Proud and domineering from time-to-time, it would not be wise to allow this woman to constantly get her own way. She desires a partner who is ambitious and well-respected in society...and she prefers traditional conformity. Romantic, but often shy of displaying as much, the Leo female can be won with true old-fashioned love and chivalry.

Amazing weekend... increasingly productive week.

(my spelling and grammar are bad today so please forgive what you are about to read)

So I had the most amazing weekend. It was definately a high flying one. I treated myself without a doubt. I bought a fabo pair of CD flamingo red peep toe pumps, a DG leopard print pump with gold embellishment and a pair of stuart weitzman over the knee leather boots, which i have already broken in.

I definately popped champaign! I am really reeling from my Naija experience and my dedication to be more open and try new things. That being said, I did enjoy the maddening of a long island icetea , the sleepiness of reisling, and yes, like I said there was definately champaign flowing. I actually felt nice. Maybe Im a goodie two-shoes or prude, but no more... hehehe The feeling at first is a little worrysome cuz i love control and you seem somewhat out of control and free. I was freely speaking my mind, but the positive thing was that I felt more relaxed and less self-conscious.

I actually made a few new friends. I was introduced to people that i really enjoyed from the begining! I'm usually reserved and dont follow through with getting to know people, though pretty friendly, but these people really won me over. I felt comfortable with them and they felt like they were right up my alley(cul-de-sac or avenue sound nicer).

Oh and I went on a date... was actually relaxing and nice. I am shy sometimes, but i felt like i was on a date with myself. was amazing. We went to see book of eli. reviews were on opposite ends of the spectrum. some gave it A+ but seemed to be clearly religious, other gave an F-... almost a Z, but they were maybe agnostic and seemed so offended by the christian overtones. I LOVED the movie. It was something that really spoke to me. Maybe because I am religeous, but it made me ask myself, what am i really willing to do for you faith, how far am i willing to go for my God because he's willing to GO the distance for me. I also was thankful for the mercies and miracles that he performs each day.

Anyway weekend was fun. week started out slow, but of course has been rising in pace. I finally put myself on a darn schedule. I programmed it into my blackberry with alarms and all. so far i have partially stuck to it. maybe the rest of the week will be more committed.

Happy Hump Day Lovlies!

Friday, January 8, 2010

2010 new beginings

In 2010, I want to start fresh. I have started fresh. Some things are not worth it. Some things jsut take time that it doesnt deserve, so this year is about positivity, growth, and maturity. To all my friends, we can work together and bring positivity. Even if we are not friends yet or are no longer friends, in 2010, that all can change. Its about uplifting eachother and adding to eachother. No negativity can bring me down in Jesus name. I have a vision and God has helped me to set out the plan. I pray the same for you, I Love u all. 2010, the year when we see abundance and reap benefits from the covenants we entered into with God and those we value.

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I'm Miss Adelaja. I'm a student, an artist, a fashionista, an innovator, and entreprenuer. Watch me as I navigate through this thing called life on a mission to succeed. Who know where it will lead me? US, Naija, Europe, the Moon. Lets go there. I know you will enjoy the ride.