Wednesday, December 1, 2010

What HIV means to me...

Hahaha. Someone asked me something funny...
"Why are you so interested in HIV Awareness, do you have it?"
 Lol He doesn't understand why I am passionate, but I  too was surprised because I didn't understand  how one could not be. If we all got involved when we God forbid are diagnosed, then there would be no movement until it has overrun our population. I am passionate about it because I don't want to EVER get HIV. I dont want YOU to ever get HIV or anyone I love.

It makes no sense that a disease that is 100% preventable has the upper hand. All you have to do is Get Tested, Know your status, and abide by preventative behavioral methods such as safe sex, open dialog with partners, screening of blood, etc.


Just like Polio, HIV can be eradicated... Lets turn World AIDS Day into "Thank God that Disease has already been Eradicated" Day. If we each play it smart, it can happen. www.worldaidsday.org

Monday, October 25, 2010

Nigerians and Health

Its so funny... I feel like Nigerians are the Fittest of the Fit. The Nigerians still alive that were born in Nigeria or grew up in Nigeria are the creme de la creme. I say this because If we have such a high infant mortality and maternal mortality rate (those who survived are lucky). Also, our health system is so shot that if you have anything greater than headache or malaria, you may not survive, even malaria  you may not survive. So really the Nigerians who are here are the ones who were healthy or lucky or smart enough to survive. No wonder I have such a great immune system.

(DISCLAIMER: Just because you are Nigerian and Alive doesnt mean you are immune from everything. Get regular checkups, eat well and live well)

I have a feeling however that a lot of Nigerians feel, because they are Nigerian, they are strong and dont need to get regular check-ups. Many guy friends I know dont go for yearly check ups and the girls only go for gyno visits.

The reality is that even if we are young, we still need to be conscious of our health. Young men, get checked for testicular cancer, women cervical cancer. Take flu seriously. Get tested everything o! You dont want to know when its too late. I heard a story of a nurse who was too busy working to even get mammogram. She died of Breast Cancer because she didnt catch it until it was too late. Dont wait for something to knock you down before you go to the doctor. Also dont think your stomach is lined with steel. You cant just eat anything,  you cant eat stews you have left out on the stove all week or rice that has been sitting there.

Eat well. Dont go for large portions. Before you know it, you will be 45 with heart problems. Cut out the palm oil and salt. Cut out the excessive meat consumption. EAT more fruits and veggies... not just veggie in soups and stews, but salads.. spinach salad, carrots, etc.

DONT SMOKE!!!!! Do you wanna die?! It may look cool, but so does tight rope walking and both are very dangerous!

Limit your drinking, beer bellies are not cute for men or women, nor is liver cirrosis... google it cus i'm not ready to go into details about that

STOP SHOUTING... ooops was I too loud? Caps mean you are shouting.. "stop shouting"... Stop screaming on phones, shouting at kids, shouting at friends and significant others, stop the drama, your life is not a Nollywood movie... take it easy... the more you take it easy, the more you decrease the stress and decrease high blood pressure.

Keep playing soccer with friends. Thats a good cardio and as African Guys love soccer, its a perfect pass time to keep in your routine that will help you maintain healthy lifestyle... WOMEN... get in the game too! Just because you are grown doesnt mean you are too posh to play soccer. If you have kids, go play with your children. Its not a man's thing. Ladies stay in shape o! If its not soccer, then do Pilates or dance classes, hip-hop, samba, salsa, jazz, etc. Men are very visual creatures, keep that brazilian (aka Nigerian) beach body  for your hubby if you have one, and most of all for  yourself.

Anyway

Living Well Lifestyle Diet (Day 1)

So I've started my Living well Lifestyle Diet (LWLD). I'm sure you are wondering, what is that! and who its by... Well I made it up! And it's just a diet for my whole life. I'm dedicated to eating healthy, working out, having healthy relationships, promoting peace of mind and peace in my life, etc. This means decrease the stress, sleep well, exercise, eat well, no alcohol!!!!

So far I'm finding it a little hard to do it, but I'm encouraged. This weekend I went bowling. This is actually a nice exercise and fun too. It helps remove the stress. But  of course today is Monday. Monday means deadlines, work, stress. So what I decided to do is do what I can, and leave what I cannot do until tomorrow. I will go home, run, shower, and work a little more from home, then go to sleep at an acceptable hour! Yay!

In terms of food, I've stocked really healthy things at home! Carrots, celery, oatmeal (I love it), Bountiful Morning Cereal, and I have cut out red meats and fowl. Its a pescetarian lifestyle. I eat more Fish, Shell Fish, Eggs and veggies. I am actually sticking to the restrictions, the problem is I forgot to restrict myself from eating candy.

Today I started off well with Quaker Oats Oat meal. I mistakenly left my lunch at home and immediately l went for KitKats and Reese's Cups. This is very bad. I am including no candies to my diet.

As far as working out, I am doing great! I park my car off campus and force myself to do a 15min walk daily to and from my car with my bookbag on. This is good because some days I cant get a workout in.

I have to force myself tho to try to take steps again and sometimes bike to school. My lateness disease (lol its not a disease, I'm just always late to everything) keeps me from biking to school alot because I find myself in a rush late for meetings.

In terms of more positive relationships, I'm trying to be more patient... with friends, family, co-workers. I'm trying to be less snippy, more smilie, less busy, more available, less tired, more vibrant, less argumentative, more open-minded.

Some things are not worth going into debate over, agree to disagree, avoid toxic people, learn to say  NO once in a while, take time for ME, and most of all take time for GOD! Majority of things I'm doing personally in this LWLD come out of  the Book of Proverbs.

Anyway I feel positive about this Living well Lifestyle Diet! It's helping me be an all round better person. If I can Eat Well, Live Well, Be Well, then I think I can Feel Well. I'll keep you posted!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Outsourced..

I really didn't know what to expect when I started watching this show. I thought it would be a xenophobic spoof of The Office that was trying to appeal to displaced Americans in the work force... why would I watch that? well just to see scare tactics that people use to try to divide a country more...lol

But to my surprise Outsources is a really funny show. If you are an American, Indian, African, or anything in between and have a sense of humor, you will love this show. Its cute. It has equal opportunity jokes and really tries to combat stereotypes in jest. It also lets us realize how offensive we could be sometimes when we dont know it and makes us more sensitive to other cultures. Take a peak at the pilot episode and let me know if you liked it too!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Post Ankara Fest Weekend

Ankara Fest was Fabulous! Had a blast thanks to my darling Big sis and her hubby! My hats go off to Danick Productions, Regal Affairs, MNIA, ANAC and Naija Entertainement for a great events. Double hats off to Lentini and his beautiful wife Bimpe. It was so good, I am wearing ankara or Naija Tops every day this week!!!!

Friday...
Was great. My sis took me to this cool spot called Lagos Cafe in Hollywood. they have AMAZING food. Not just amazing, but 'make you wanna have owambe party, spray her money and marry her daughter' kinda good. Rice is straight up party rice... so flavorful. Moimoi-licious, meat is just right! YUM!. Anyway every Friday they have a Happy Hour there at Lagos Cafe with great music, dancing, and of course food served all night long. runs from 8pm until people wanna go/or she kicks you out.. so usually around 2 or 3am.
Music.... I have never heard such amazing naija music. DJ was none other than Lentini again. Dude played fresh out of naija Jams I never heard before, but ppl were dancing like mad... and no one was drunk. That's how good it was...  Please also there is one song that goes "Meow Meow Pussy Cat" yes its a naija song o... if you got it, or know who sings it,.. hook a sistah up!

Saturday...
We went to go feed the homeless!!!!! How fun is that! Actually... its REALLY FUN!!!! About 15 young Nigerians met up st the PATH homeless shelter to cook and serve the homeless... and wash all the dishes afterwards. I think I got more out of this event than the people we cooked for because not only did i meet amazing people, and hear touching stories, but I got to feel good about myself for being there. Like I said before, you never know who is one paycheck away from being HOMELESS. Anyway Pics and video coming soon!

By the way, I just wanna say that before we fed the homeless, we went to a hispanic grocery store to get meat and stuff and when I spoke my grade F spanish to the clerk, he didnt laugh, he didnt mean mug, he smiled, spoke to me, and even gave us discounts on the meat and free guacamole... errmmmm.... yes guacamole, but its the gesture that counts, he was showing a friendly spirit and thats something that would make me go back to that store again if I was there. Alot of times, Naija store owners complain that we dont patron our own stores, but sometimes I tire of the nasty looks (you know that look, where they look you up and down all stanky-like... mmmhmmm who are you? I'm better than you .... blah blah). Angel doesnt play that. I'm an equal opportunity smiler and I'm brand loyal.. so if you have customer service, I'll come again... even if you are more expensive or have bad product... So just smile, say hi... doesnt hurt. But no! Naijas, if you even try to make small talk, or ask if they are naija, they give one type of attitude... ok o!  tried, lemme go back to guacamole  homey. Dude was mad nice.
Anyway back to the gist...

Sunday...
First of all, I wanna say that any man that can cook amazing breakfast is heaven sent! One of my Big sis's friends came and cooked for us. Was delish! Kudos to the dude.
So Ankara Fest!!!! yels!!! was fun o!!! Was a reunion of some pretty amazing people too! Eno Inwek and Raz Adoti were the hosts! They did an Uber-twitterific job! I hope Raz has added Eno to Facebook... and I hope Eno is done making Raz "STOOL DOWN" hehehe if you were there you'll understand. Those two have jokes.

The fashions... o they were on point! Some heavy designers sha! HEAVY!!!!! Eno said... Ankara gives you self esteem... hels yea! these styles make any lady feel like a million bucks... And you didn't need a million bucks to buy them either, they were so affordable. Designers included Ajai Rayne, Mocha Latte, Studio Alade, Tasiya, and others... Pics also coming soon!

The performance... ummm... i just wanna say, why is it at nigerian cultural events the dancers play ivorian music and dance ndombolo? Ummm... hello? naija has dances and music too... Either way the dancers were on point! They can move! They smiled, and they did a bang up job *applause*. They even danced for Mike Okri as he performed! He was as usual... AMAZING... (i need to come up with more adjectives... hahaha) but he was great... sad that the audience SUCKED!!!! they didnt want to clap or dance or stand or interact. He tried o.. but naijas dey form too much o! hmmpf! I got up and danced. He even sang one new song.. was really good. I cant wait for him to do alot of collabos with these young fresh acts.

And last but not least, NAETO C-E-O the BOSS... Yes Boss! He was in the building, and did a smashing performance, but again, crowd was forming... but you know how you know they were feeling him... women still made it up to the front of the stage, young and old. Ehn... Mama Jide, Mama, Nneka, and Aunty Hazeezat were up there too shakin it( imaginary names). Get in where you fit in... what can i say, they like naeto C!

One thing i wanna comment on about the night... erm.. so this thing was hosted by ANAC... I really appreciate them putting this together, but.. a Lady from ANAC came on the stage and started talking about how they put this together because if they put together a town hall meeting, or forum, the young wouldnt come out, and that young need to get involved in community, and that they we are here at Ankara Fest to have fun, but that in her time they didnt know fun, they only know hard work... umm... hello? I find it slightly offensive because if  she really did her research, she'd see so many YOUNG Nigerians putting together townhalls, conferences, and other forums for to talk abotu issues related to Nigeria... so many also are part of community service programs or run NGO's. The youth are very active, I just think that the old carry a steriotype about us.. a false steriotype. Maybe if they talked to us, and took us seriously, rather than sitting on a high horse to judge, they would see what we youth are doing... Sorry to rant, but it has to be said...

All in all, an amazing weekend!

Monday, August 30, 2010

Nigeria at 50: A call to action!

Okay! So this whole thought of Nigeria at 50, the celebrations, the issues we try to throw to the side is really making me move.... I want to rally. not just a thought. I'm become more of something I HAVE to do.

We all agree something is wrong with the way our country is running. a country is like a family. If things are going wrong, we have to step up and intercede on behalf of the whole family b/c it represents each of us. We are Nigeria and Nigeria's Legacy. Like in any family there are people that marry out... aka move to another country... but doesn't make us any less a part of that family. We are still Nigerian... nee Nigeria, omo Nigeria. Just like no matter what family I marry into, I will always be an Adelaja.. Nee Adelaja or however they say it in Yoruba.

So lets make a statement! Nigeria at 50 is a call to action... We always say Nigerians like to TALK, and FLASH... Well sorry, there is no more Status Quo! We are no longer about talk. We are about Action. We are no longer about Flash, we are about doing what we have to to get the job done. We are no longer about Status Quo, when status quo is not benefiting us, we look to change! I've heard my call to action, have you heard yours?

So on that note, Facebook page on the way, promo video is coming, petition pages will be created for you to get and have friends sign! Start making your signs! We are rallying o! It will Happen o!

And for those in Nigeria, I hope for a Rally at the ROCK ... Aso Rock to be precise, so be bold and make it happen there! We abroad support you!

For information on organizations around the world who take the initiative to stand for Nigieria, check out these links:





The Lord can interpret your Dreams! Just Ask

Let me start by saying.. in Job 33:15, the bible defines a dream as "in a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men, in slumberings upon the bed.

Okay so those that read my blog know that I had a zombie dream. Well actually, for the past few days, I've been having really vivid crazy dreams. Some were really scary, some based on my real life, some based in fiction. Its even more weird when you have no meaning to what you are dreaming. So after church yesterday, and after talking to a friend of mine about another dream I had, I drove in my car and started praying to God. I prayed to Him, thanked Him for being my Father, a never ending God, in control of all. I thanked him for being a Magnificent All Powerful God, and all of a sudden I started praying about my dreams. I prayed and asked Him that He take control, that in the bible, there is nothing that says dreams are bad, and that, in fact;God helped Joseph and Daniel decipher dreams. So I asked HIM to reveal to me all my dreams. I told HIM that I am happy i can go to HIM and ask Him for ALL things, and that what I was asking for was that He as the Creator of dreams should also be my Interpretor. I asked that anything the devil tries to put in my head, the Lord should cast out, that I rebuke lies and deceit, because the Lord is the truth and light. I asked that dreams that have no meaning, I should be able to discern from dreams where the Lord is delivering His Word to me. As you know not all dreams are prophetic, some are just dreams, some are lies, and some are visions in sleep of things to come, changeable or unchangeable. I kept asking the Lord to reveal his message to me when there is one. That I am ready for it.


okay lets rewind back... some time ago, my mom had a dream about me, that I would get into a car accident. Before I left on a trip,  she called me when she woke and started praying for me. We prayed... and prayed............................... and prayed. And I really dismissed the whole thing. I shouldn't have because God was truly speaking. If my mom didn't pray for me, I would have had a really bad situation. Basically, I was driving, I wasn't tired and I got a great nights sleep the night before, but all of a sudden, sleep befell me, and I fell asleep at the wheel and almost ran into the median. Well actually I did run into the barrier, but only my side mirror and wheel hit. We thank God that I got a phone call that buzzed me awake and got me to have control of the wheel. If I didn't get that call, I would be road kill! We thank God for that intervention. God moved someone to WAKE me. It wasn't my time, and God warned us so we could pray for his favor.

Here's the thing, I pulled into a rest stop which was only half a mile away from where I fell asleep and I called my mom and said "don't ever call me to tell me I will be in an accident!". I was freakin' FREAKED OUT at that time! at that time i didn't realize what I was saying. it was an ungrateful statement. I was basically saying that the Lord should not reveal things to me. so my mom basically put me in check to let me know... HEY! the Lord reveals things to people in many ways and if he has revealed something to someone to give you that message, you should be ready to accept that message at ALL times. Its the difference between life and death. So i really saw what she meant and thanked God and thanked him and thanked him! God is good...

okay going back to my dreams.... so after my prayer, I went on with my day. I even by evening forgot my prayer. I was on to other things... but I am living proof that the Lord does answer prayers... lets get to what I actually want to write about... this is going to be a LONG blog...

Okay so let me start by saying that I am a geek. I love everything scifi... I love zombie movies, vampire movies, alien movies, and high tech end of the world type of movies. As a christian, I know that bad, but I never cut them out. Bad bad me. I watch shows such as Tru Blood, Star Gate SG1, Haven, Eurika, etc.

Anyway last night my favorite cast from Star Gate SG1 was in my dreams. I was there too! Basically, there was something like a virus or bug that was making things rapidly rot. It started slowly and all of a sudden would quickly take over the world without warning and rot everything DEAD! This included the people, including my SG1 cast, you and me. THEN.... We would un-rot, and have a change to try to slow, stop or reverse the "bug". We tried it several times. All sorts of science didn't work! Nothing worked. I woke up, and rather than stay awake, I went back to sleep! I went back to trying to solve it in my dream and I started to pray in my dream. As I was praying I was saying that I am a child of God and that I choose life, not death. I kept saying that the devil has no power over me. somehow the rotting passed me and a few people over as it waved over the earth. and then as usual, it refreshed and the rotting started again, but this time, I knew where it was coming from. there was a bin with maggots/termite type bugs, and they were ready to start rotting evertyhing on earth. The team was recognized with a medal and made in charge of thing, but people didnt realize that it wasnt science that stopped the rot, it was prayer, and when people didnt realize that, the rot came back and even reached the space station where the SG1 team was. Noone was safe. But in praying over and over again, I kept getting spared. and the rot could tell who was of God and who wasn't. It had no effect, and ever ran from those who were God's children. We were ministering to the rot... and I woke up...

WOW. that dream was intense. I got up to go to the bathroom and midstream... yes i started praying and peeing... but mid stream i started praying. I was praying in my mind, and all of a sudden I started praying aloud. I usually dont like to pray aloud because my mouth is not as fast as my mind, but I was moved to pray aloud and it was just as fast as my SPIRIT b/c i was trying to understand what i was praying. Man!!!! what in the world... or I should say what in the heavens... My prayers as I was hearing myself was a revelation of my dream. I kid you not. I just started crying and praying. We thank God!

That revelation was not anything I didn't know. The long and short is that all of this is God's. He is the creator. He has control of all. even the devil. The Lord will allow the devil to test us. After all we all have free will. and get this... we all get 2nd chances. We all get a chance to do it over, but if we keep doing it over the wrong way, then we are choosing death. things of this earth are of the flesh. it may look pretty on the outside, but its really rotting inside. And there is no science or rational that can prevent it. Only the Lord has that power. So why are we looking to science, money, psychics, or things of the flesh? it wont stop the rot. And remember, God only gives us so many chances until our chances are up and he calls us to be judged.

For me, I want to be among the first wave, those that reach the gates and are permitted entry, and if I live to see the End of Days, I want to be part of that Second wave where Jesus calls us up to him. I dont want to stay on this earth to be part of that ROTTING and DEATH. Everlasting LIFE is my portion !!!! We thank God!!!!

So that was my dream!...

On a side note, yesterday in church they talked about spiritual maturity and how you can't be satisfied with just being born again. That maturing in your Christian life is a must! So in my prayer, I thanked him for this step in the process to spiritual maturity. God is calling me to MATURE. Is he calling you? If so, dont let it go to Voicemail, Pick up and answer that Call! Answer each and every time he Calls. Let the Holy Spirit be that special ring tone!

Anyway sorry to get all preachy today, but that dream just moved me this morning. So there you have it. I hope you learned something from this that I'm sharing! We thank God for it....

And BTW, I just found while writing this blog a great webpage that talks about dreams and the bible... a nice read. What does Bible say about DREAMS?

Have a great and bless week folks!

Friday, August 27, 2010

Voting outside of Nigeria

I had the privilege to talk to a friend of mine last year about the Gabonese elections. Apparently they have absentee balloting at embassies all over the world. People can register and can go to the embassies and consulates with their passports! They can vote and its handled in house! And best of all, their votes count... however small the percentage of overall votes...Go Figure!

 And it made me think. There are so many Nigerian living outside of Nigeria. In the USA, we are the largest African community. We are the most educated immigrant population too, but yet we cant put our heads together to fight for our RIGHT to vote in Nigerian elections. There's no "out of sight out of mind" when it comes to the rights of a Nigerian.

(courtesy of Pixhaus.com)


Anyway I fast forward to a conversation I was having with one of my Nigerian Big Sistah. She was so upset at the whole hullaballoo about Nigeria at 50 and the monies being spent on it, when so little is spent on Nigerian healthcare or education. She was appauled by the groups here in america putting together parades and celebrations and making money off of independence parties while their counterparts suffer from hunger, disease, and lack of infrastructure. "What is there to celebrate" she said. I brought up that as Nigerians many times we can spend to go to Nigeria for December vacation, but we can't make a sacrifice to make our voice heard for the good out our country.

(courtesy of republicreporters.com)


Where are the rallies? Where are the protests? Wheres the action? Is there even one event focused on discussion and holding people accountable for Nigeria as a Failed state so far?

(courtesy of tdaxp.com)

Basically, if we don't take ourselves seriously, Nigerian crooks... oops i mean "politicians", wont take us seriously. Imagine if there was a great campaign with celebrities and dignitaries promoting forgoing leisure travel to Nigeria for the sole purpose of sparking a mass migration to Naija during election season. Imagine!

Also imagine if we could lobby to have absentee balloting now that we have our new biometric passports. I'm sure there's an independent firm out there that could be contracted to conduct non partisan, non-biased elections processes at Nigerian Embassies and consulates world wide. We are smart people. Lets think here! I would love to rally and lobby for such an ability. Just because I no dey 4 my papa land no mean I no dey Nigerian. I'm a Nigerian O! Green Pali for me o! I want to VOTE o!

Lets see which politicians would back something like that. Maybe only the ones that believe in a fair and free elections... ermm... none? God forbid! Well lets see. The thought is out there. I'm not claiming intellectual property rights on this. who ever is capable and sure of heart should get it done!

(courtesy of uhrobotimes.com)

Anyway until then, I have resigned to the fact that I just must prepare myself for voting in Nigeria! I will be there! I will be ready! I will Vote! and for the first time ever. Meet me at the Polling booth, its going down!

Ankara Fest 2010

Another Exciting event! AnkaraFest 2010 in Los Angeles California! This Labor Day weekend!
Its a showcase of latest ankara styles as well as a chance for young ladies such as myself to shop shop shop for all the ankara designs and material my heart can desire!!!!! Whoo hoo! Not only is there fashion, but the Stars come out that night. Reported to be attending are Mike Okri, Naeto C, and many more!


So just for fun, I wanna look back on some of my fashionable and not so fashionable ankara styles... hehehe

yes this is the casual look. ankara shirt with tank top. i love it so much cuz you can go to the store or friends house
this is actually black and white ankara. made a cure babydoll dress from it
this is not ankara, but i rocked it back then. didnt wanna dress like my momma!
another ankara style. what do you think?  have... NO Comment
a lace style
another casual look! wore this for independence day long time ago. jeans and ankara top! 
yes friends this is an ankara style cuz the skirt believe it or not is ankara
another western shirt ankara skirt style. high waist. 
my MNIA pageant dress! very lovable ankara look. i love formal gowns in ankara material
 
and this is another lace style. Is there a Nigerian National Symphony?
and my latest ankara style from the 2010 NRC. Believe it or not, I've worn this outfit 3 times in 3 different ways! 
There you have it. my Naija style hits and misses. Hopefully everything I get at the Ankara Fest will be a HIT HIT HIT!

NEA Awards 2010

Oooooo! the NEA Awards are coming and its my first time ever going to them...



For those that don't know NEA stands for the Nigerian-Entertainment-Awards! All the hottest Musicians, Actors, Actresses, DJs, producers will be in attendance! My favorite Nollywood Stars! Oooo I hope to see Rita! no not from Koko Mansion. Rita Dominic. I hope to see Desmond Elliot! I hope to see ... omg the list just goes on and on! Check out the awesome fab promo they did for the event. I think this was well done, classy and naijafied. Not everything Nigerian has to be razz. Razz was cool LAST YEAR, this year is about class and swag. And this video definitely appealed to all Naijas! Shows that the Naija entertainment industry is coming up!!!



They sure will see me there! So now I have to figure out what I'm going to wear! Ankara, European, Long, Short, Sassy, Classic, what? Oh Lawd! Let see how this pulls off. I'll keep you posted too!

Leave a comment with links to cute styles or with suggestions on outfits.
Also let me know what you think about going to this years NEA Awards. Are you going? Do you think its going to be hot? Do you think its worth it? What do you think of the Nigerian Entertainment Industry? Let me know!

Zombies?

Okay so II'm a bit of a sci-fi geek and every once in a while I have an alien/time travel/zombies type dream. Okay so I had this crazy zombie dream last night. No I didn't watch a movie before bed. It was unprovoked. Basically, People were turning left and right. They weren't decaying, at least not all of them, They were pretty much in the state that they "died" or were turned in. I was with a group of people including John Leguizamo and Enrique Iglesias. Of course Johnny Boy was the bass-ass, and enrique was the one that always got us into deep dog dudu.

Okay thats neither here nor there. The real issue was that at one point I found myself in a football field full of zombies, and they only attached when they a)saw me moving erratically. b)came close enough to their face, or when c)I interfered with their "normal" rote movements.
When I hid and watched them, they just kept doing movements that they normally did in life. for example on the football field, some players kept moving their arm like they were throwing, some kept kicking, some kept running forward repeatedly, some kept running from side to side.

They weren't really dead. they were just in the state that they were when they turned. Meaning they had a diminished sense of others around them unless related to normal movement. Some zombies retained the ability to talk, but it wasn't conversation level speech, it was more like memory of sentences they most frequently said in their past life (past living life).

For example, at some point I made my way onto a bus (sounds like a bad idea huh? well okay let me premise the bus story. Basically on the football field I realized that not everyone was "DEAD" there were a few people that learned to interact with zombies on the zombie level that were still alive. one guy just hid in the electrical cabinet, another guy hid behind a pillar, and another dude was actually just pacing back and forth at a steady pace. at one point he made sure he walked in such a way that each pace in my direction was larger than in the opposite direction and when he got close to me, he whispered that he's not a zombie and that there seems to be a trick to dealing with the zombies, that I should follow him, but while he was saying that, zombies noticed his non-normal behavior and attacked us!)

this leads us to the Bus scene... so we ran and it took a while for some zombies to "wake up" from their routine to chase us... some where less sensitive than others... so it gave us time to get to a bus... he said we should follow him. so we did and crazy enough, we walked onto a full of zombies just sitting. we get on and sit too. the bus driver is noticeably a zombie. he doesn't ask for fare, but when I didn't put it, he sort of grunted "fare" so i dug for change and put it in lol! As we sat we realized that there were actually about eight of us that were non-zombies (mind you that you turn if you get the spit/blood of a zombie in a wound or tissue that is permeable to virus, sort of like HIV) Anyway the bus is taking us on this long route.

One guy in front disturbs the driver enough from his routine that the driver is aggravated and attacks him, funny enough the driver keeps saying "if you think you can do any better, you take the wheel" which makes me believe he probably said it before to a passenger or had that reoccurring though in his mind while "alive", both fall out of the door of the moving bus. this gives another man a quick opportunity to grab wheel of bus. Its so hard not to react and to stay still. Anyway many of the zombies seem "shut off" some are so involved in their routine like the woman in front of me knitting. I can tell she's a zombie because the back of her head is partially ripped out.

Anyway we are able to get off the bus and burn it(thats the thing about dreams... o don't remember how now) and we are in a podunk town thats empty, maybe zombies mass migrated or or are dormant. either way, we walk towards the most rural area with corn fields and no-civilization. We walk for miles. we see an airplane fall out of the sky some distance away from using the direction of the metropolitan area, we get to deep corn field and see unturned black people playing golf in the fields!!! Whats weird is that there are NO birds, or animals of any sort. Where are they. Anyway a biker band rides through and we hide, but they stop and find us, kill the black people, but not my group... any i'm black... i dunno why, maybe because they were yuppies... lol anyway we fight until they induct us into their group. they carry tanks of pesticide with them. apparently they use it to numb zombies, because the poisonous chemicals in the pesticides that cause parkinsonian like symptoms in us, cause no movement for zombies...

Okay then I woke up..

so lets get down to the fact/fiction/plausible/not plausible portion..

1) okay maybe the virus is something that only attacks the brain and nervous system. This justifies why they had diminish ability to think on a higher level but still retained some ability to talk, and move as they did when they were alive. maybe there is Zombie IQ because some were more skilled than others and retained more higher order function and thought process. Also maybe accounts for why some were in a deeper state of "dead" meaning they weren't as sensitive to us moving in a non-ordered pattern. this may have to do with duration of infection, IQ, ability to rally from infection, etc

2)they weren't quite living dead... they didn't smell dead, they were just "sleeping" they could breath and walk etc. so this brings me to another issue, if zombies by tradition are living dead, and they are pretty much moving corpses, why is it that they move at all? muscles need oxygen and nutrients to move. If the body is decaying, so is the nervous system too, then the brain cant send signal to the rest of body to move. so it must be an infection of an isolated organ or part of organ ie brain. remember many times viruses have an affinity to specific tissue (ie Herpes Symplex virus 1 versus 2, different types of HPV, and even the Herpes Zoster virus).

3) brings me to question "why don't zombies attack each other" in my humble opinion... and i'm not a zombie expert, it way be for a number of reasons. some people say pheramones. one thing i love about viruses is that they can make your body produce whatever it wants your body to produce! It can code for proteins that lead to increased pheramone production, increased activity of cells to produce new organs, increased production of onco-genes to keep cells from "dying" etc. ok also could be that if only higher level thought is affected, there is something primitive that keeps us, animals, and zombies from being "cannibal" meaning they don't each each other, but they don't see us "living" as one of them so they can eat us.

4)zombies that don't attack unless provoked or unless they notice erratic movement? i love this concept of higher order function and a virus that only affects a specific portion of the brain. when they used the pesticides to freeze the zombies it really fit into that theory because pesticides many times affect the thalamus and dopaminergic system. so maybe in the zombies the virus codes also for increased production of dopamine receptors, not just in the cells of the thalamus but all over, since all cells have full genetic code, but have parts of DNA that are methylated and such, maybe virus can code to undo methylation and cause production of things that particular cells don't normally produce. Reverse cell differentiation... love this idea.

5) maybe zombies don't want to feed or attack to spread virus. maybe the virus just spreads like other viruses we have in our real world, and like rabies makes person attack b/c of dis-inhibition or something. affecting frontal cortex areas? i dunno.

6) ok one thing that really irked me in my dream was that for the life of me i could not find any animals? no zombie animals, no animal corpses, no living animals, WTH? is it that my mind could not handle factoring in animals into the dream? or is it that maybe in my subconsciousness i believe that animals could sense the "turning" of zombies and got the hell out of dodge, or maybe animals were turned but it makes then commit secret suicide, they go hide and die, or causes photosensitivity, so they hate light (b/c my whole dream was in daytime) Remember that movie alien, when they killed the alien, and exploded it into pieces, but then a rat came and munched on the little piece of exploded alien and then it turned? does that happen with animals? or do animals lack the part of the brain that the virus needs to replicate. lets delve into differences in our genetic code to see what may be a protective factor for animals. maybe we can make a zombie vaccine!

ok so there you have it... my zombie rant. feel free to comment and give your own thots on this and my dream. Can Angelina Jolie-Pitt or Angela Basset play me in a movie? is my dream movie worthy lol!Where are you warner brothers? Id wanna cast John Leguizamo to play himself!

Diary of a Gidi-Girl disclaimer: My Nigerian friends may not find this as interesting cuz it seems they are not much into sci-fi, they plead the blood of Jesus on anything alien or fictional... so as a Nigerian, I'll say "God forbid we ever have a zombie virus or get overrun by zombies" in all honesty, i do rebuke zombies because it would be such a scary thing. However, you never know whats going to happen at the endtimes. only God knows and God is in control.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Vive la music!!!

This one goes out to all my francophone! I have the pleasure of presenting to you, a woman of God, a sweet person, with a humble heart, who is blessed with a BIG voice. That Big voice belongs to Rafiya, aka Nicole Ngokwey. Amazing actually because not everyone is blessed with such a voice, but God blessed her, and guess what, he duplicated her, she's a twin, and her twin is just as talented. They started singing together at a small age and formed EMINIK, for Emily and Nicole. They toured with major music artist and always wowed people with their voice. The were also sensible enough to get great educations and do amazingly well in school and though its just Nicole singing now, you are blessed to hear the voice that God created through her. I think this is a girl that is really going places. She sings in multiple languages, English, French, and her native language. She really is also a cross-over artist and many people can identify with her. I see her going place FAST. There's no auto tunes, no synthesizers here, her voice is pure! If you like her as much as I do, you can get a copy of her CD entitled Amazing here . She's truly amazing.



Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Homelessness

Today I wanted to talk about homelessness. There are so many people who are a
  • missed rent payment 
      •  a bad relationship
  • another month no paycheck
      • a mental health disorder
away from being on the streets. If you dont get me, I am trying to say that many people find themselves in situations where they have no other choice but to live on the streets. Its compounded by the lack of family support, inability for some to access care or resources, the inability for mental health services to account for all that have mental disorders that roam the streets.

I remember when I lived in Philadelphia. When I first moved there, I used to see so many homeless people and think
"Maybe they shouldn't have dropped out, or used drugs"

"Eww they smell like urine"

"Bums are unappreciative"
No joke, and i'm woman enough to admit that I had those silly thoughts, but it was a totally flawed way of thinking. If you walked a mile in the shoes of some, you realize that each story is different. Just as not all rich people made their money through being hard working, not all people on the streets have jaded pasts.

I have grown in my thinking on this, as I was able to experience and have contact with people in this situation. Working with homeless people and giving to them, especially the homeless mothers and babies. And I believe that God has a plan for all of us, even those who find themselves in difficult situations.

I thank God for all my unmerited blessings and hope that as He blesses me, he can use me as a vessel to deliver blessings to others.

Count your blessing and thank God for what he's given you. make sure you are living your life to his glory because at any moment, all he has blessed you with can be taken away.  ... God forbid those bad things, but I'm just saying..

And now that you have read this... maybe you should stake a lunch or plate, clothing or something helpful to a person in need.

-Love Always
Angel

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Fellas!!! Would you let your woman get into politics?

So this was a Question of the day and to my surprise, most of my guy friends said "sure why not?" which i thought was cool! I love a man that is strong and secure enough in himself to see his woman succeed. What was even more surprising was that most of the men said they are not really big into politics.  One said also that if it got too crazy or dangerous, he would expect for her to bow out. Anyway this was a small poll of Nigerian men living in Nigeria and abroad. They were 5 in total, so i'm pretty optomistic about men's views.

So women! lets start to take a stand! get out there and flex ur political muscles! We can't sit back and worry about the future of our children if we dont make an effort to ensure it and ensuring it is thru political activity whether through direct involvement or voting and fundraising for a favorite candidate

From LA to NRC 2010- I've been busy

RANDOM: I'm proud to be a Nigerian! Yes I said it. You think Nigerians are proud people? Well I am, I have a reason to be, and I hope that pride will translate into making my country better.
Anyway as I said, I've been zipping and running all around the past few months. I'll try to update you in chronological order...

April: We had the UNIHIV Gala in April Check out events here UNIHIV News and Events. It was a success. We had a nice crowd with great crowd participation. We had amazing speakers like Razaq Adoti and Miss Nigeria in America 2009. We had a stunningly beautiful, charismatic, and smart host, Miss Black Conneticut, Osas Ighodaro, my homegirl who is also up for the Miss Black USA (support her). We had stars all around like Sammi Rotibi, Hakeem Kae Kassim, and more. Mike Okri performed! I love his Omoge song hehe! We had other local performers show support through performance such as Kevin Tapper, Ohdichi, etc. We had fashion.. Oui Oui le fasion! We had designs by natalia villafana. All in all I was happy about the hard work we put into it and the turn out. Note to nigerians: please whatever you do, try to do it at the best level of quality. Money making should not be the issue, you should focus on giving your crowd an experience so that they rememebr you and come back next year. I hope that we at UNIHIV did that.
The @UNIHIV team looked SHARP @ the hope4hiv charity gala

May:I took a small vacation but somehow work entered the equation. It is what it is
We love baseball. Good old american passtime! Go lugnuts!
We trekked from east coast 2 midwest! Then rode okadas(mopeds) 2 go eat sushi!


June: CPDD rolled around! I presented a poster on prescription drugs and gave an oral presentation on cocaine. Best part was that it was in arizona so I got to see a cactus for the first time ever! Only saw those things on the looney tunes wiley coyote episodes. lol they are huge! saw jack rabbits, swam, it was relaxing.
Me @ my poster 4 #cpdd10 #cpdd #nida opioid research from #msu
Drug Prevention 2day in usa in at risk ages, age 10-21 is sparce. See this figure. #nida
Cactus love
I'm so excited about cacti cactuses whatever! I will have a cactus n rock garden in naija!

July: NRC 2010! Was July 4th weekend. UNIHIV was there with a booth and handing out condoms. Was my first reunion and I loved it. I tell you! reunion is not just for 18-25.
I'm with Ebbe bassey, actress and role model 4 naija women.

My darlings! @miss_nigeria and @Queen_Gideon
Different people can go for different reasons. I went to network in addition to promote safe sex. My sister joined me too! We had girl time. It was fun though she said she didnt come to work.. .hahaha. gotta put her to work tho! Enjoy the pics
I just dey Pose small small
My little sister and I! I miss her muchos!

July part 2: just wrapped up another unihiv event in chicago. was smashing! Was movie premiere for REBIRTH. again check the unihiv events page for pics. I had to represent so i rocked a sexy red dress and red pumps. Bebe never lets me down. I felt comfy but sexy in that outfit so kudos to bebe store and kudos to my UNIHIV partner who actually picked out the outfit. A man with a sense of style rocks!

Anyway you can see that my timeline has been all UNIHIV this and that, so you know thats taking up most of my life.

In other angel news.. I think i need to change the blog name because I dont think relocation to naija is happening any time soon. I applied for jobs and they are not really looking to pay a relocation fee. I really want to move back, but relocation is a must, even if the fee is small. So any NGOs or companies out there that are looking for a smart epidemiologist with a love for hiv/std surveillence and experience with research on sexual risk behaviors and drug use, and experience puting together field studies and interventions in addition to having a strong statistical background, call me email me for my resume! I'm ready to relocate to naija.

Lol so thats whats been up. more blogging to come.

Beautiful People

Ok so I've been slacking on blogging because really I've been doing so much and haven't had time to focus on me or reflect, but I thought this topic would help me ease back into things...

So I always hear the word beutiful.
"You are so beautiful!"
                         "Thats such a beautiful person right there"
"He's beautiful inside and out"
                          "You've got a beautiful soul"

But I really wanted to know what people saw as beautiful because all this beauty talk is starting to get me confused. Is it the inside? What about the inside makes you beautiful? Is it the outside, that face, high cheekbones, the figure, natural, weaved out, what?

So I just posted the question as the question of the day on my blackberry Messenger and here are a few comments I got.

"Hey...my concept of beauty will be simple and confident...lol...
I think its more of a personal definitionof what I'll call simple in looks...some people do a great job pulling off some really complex looks lol, but striking beauty for me would be simple and confident(for looks) for any other things, hum, simplicity still appeals the most to me"
-Anonymous Female, Lagos

"Beauty is peacefull. Nice hearted inside and out, not fake"
-Anonymous Male, Philadelphia

"My definition of beauty is being able to use resources given to you and channeling them [for] a greater good"
-Anonymous Female, Bay Area

"Ambition, the God in her, personality, mentality, and of course Looks:)"
-Anonymous Male, Boston

"Personality! A cute person with no character is ugly... Looks fade but personaility is long lasting"
-Anonymous Male, New Jersey

"I can date a guy who looks like eye candy, but I can't let him be the father of my kids. No way, that's a deal breaker. Most of my real relationships have been with someone I clicked with mentally and not based just on looks. Looks to me are beauty, but to be a beautiful person is so much more"
-Anonymous Female, Michigan


"U really wanna know? A big kondo, fat pockets, and model looks. Lol just kidding, beauty 2 me is ones ability to be selfless and think outside themselves. A caring man is the sweetest. Confidence is also beautiful. His faith in God too. And his calming nature"
-Anonymous Female, Philadelphia


"Beauty has to be natural and come from within, and not forced or manufactured. Women I think are beautiful e.g. Kerry Washington, Mrs Huxtible"
-Anonymous Male, New Jersey

So basically the common denominator is that it's not physical looks that define beauty but the inner parts of a person, their kindness, calm, natural, sweet natured, and loving spirit. Thats deep.

So then WHY are people putting so much stock on physical looks? Why are we going out of our way to make people who dont have high cheek bones or are not tall n slender with a badunka feel bad? All God created is beauty. Let recognize that we are all perfectly human, created by the Lord for a purpose and that this looks and flesh will not follow us into heaven, will not get us into the gates of heaven. My rihanna weave wont give me extra favor. lol ok that was a joke. but lets be real.

Next time you see a guy you think is cute walking with a girl you think is 'ugly' and ask 'ewww why is he with her" stop and think to yourself that she's got a man, she has been blessed with and you are pining over him manless because God dont like 'ugly'! The type of ugly that rots you on the inside.

Anyway on that note, I'm off to work on my beauty... aka off to make myself a better person.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

I'm on a roll today... I am African... it's in my Blood!

Check out Nneka-Heartbeat!

I love it. Add another to my heavy rotation. I cant wait to hear the house/club mix!!!!!!



Also check out African by Nneka

Maga No Need Pay

I kid you not, i just cried watching this video. It was so inspiring to see Naija Artists giving back and setting an example as a role model. I got my BLING and it shines brighter than all those diamonds and things.

PS the dude in the hat that was singing has an amazing voice! I was impressed



And to think.... this video has gotten world wide recognition! Paris Loves "maga no need pay" apparently

Slow Slow by Chuddy K

I'm 'slow slow' in posting this video apparently. Chuddy K is an up and coming artist from Lagos, Nigeria. I heard of this song from other people when I went to Nigeria this December, but had never heard it.  I just recently heard the song like 2 weeks ago, but only learned today that there was a video. Love seeing Nigerians doing their thing.

It's definately that "boo'd up" "grab ur man and dance" "lovey lovey" kinda song that gets ladies and people in love going. Since I fall into at least 1 of those categories, you know that the slow slow song is definately a HIT! Anyway I love this song. It is on my blackberry and lappy and is in heavy rotation now. Watch the 'Slow Slow' Video by Chuddy K ...

UNIHIV

So I'm working with 6 other motivated people on an organization called UNIHIV. It's geared towards raising awareness and funds for HIV/AIDS. For more information go to http://www.unihiv.com/ and check out the blog at http://www.unihiv.blogspot.com/ . You can also follow UNIHIV on twitter @UNIHIV .

Also something so exciting was that UNIHIV got to team up with Toks TV to put together a public service anouncement! It's a 'Safe Sex' PSA. Check it out! Check out Toks TV at http://www.tokstv.com/ as well.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

The Leo Woman... does this characterize me?

So today I stumbled across this website. Dont ask me what exactly I was looking for when I found this or why I was looking for what I was looking for... hehehehe. anyway check it out. If you are a leo and a woman, tell me if it describes you. at first i was like 'no no its wrong! i'm not that way!' then i was like 'well maybe a little', but when i honestly compared it to myself with an open mind and without defense, i saw they yes it is me entirely whether i like to admit it or not. that doesnt mean i cant deviate from some things when i like, or that i cant change with the will to do so, but all in all, it generally is my personality. Check out the entire site here http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/leolovecomp.html


The Leo female possesses a flair for the dramatic and clearly has little use for the routine and ordinary. She tends to act as though she is always on stage, basking in the spotlight so everyone who is anyone is sure to be aware of her presence. She may want to be head of the house and at times, behave in a totally unreasonable fashion in order to get her own way. Still, she will listen to reason if her good heart and generosity are appealed to. Affectionate, kindhearted and sincere, women governed by Leo have a deep love of children and make for excellent mothers who adore their homes...but when it comes to being domestic, they prefer being served rather than serving as mistress of the castle. This female is plainly an incurable romantic, forever in love with love...but such love must include affection. Personally magnetic, she has no problem in attracting potential mates...and if any mate should become jealous of her many admirers, it would be best to not let it show. This is because the Leo woman believes, on some level, that she is entitled to as many compliments as others are willing to shower upon her. This is a female who likes to be admired, but cannot abide a mate to chastize her for simply doing what comes naturally. Although she may appear to want to be won, it will be necessary for any potential partner to allow this woman to do the winning. Being involved with a female ruled by Leo will certainly enhance any mate's skills at courting and seduction...provided such mate possesses sufficient wisdom and stamina to survive the course. If an individual would achieve true happiness with this woman, it will be necessary to display pride at her many accomplishments...and be proud of her on a personal level. She requires virtually constant flattery and devotion. Never ever must she be catigated or criticized in public...to do so marks the certain kiss of death for the relationship. Similarly, a partner must never try to deceive this woman in any way whatsoever. She possesses a high degree of honor that should never be trifled with...and should she find any mate unfaithful, then that mate is doomed to spend much time in the doghouse.


The Leo woman is usually blessed with an almost stately appearance and can achieve great elegance...although she is not necessarily interested in clothes as articles of fashion. This female possesses a rather regal air, a sympathetic disposition and excellent social qualities. The woman ruled by Leo is a passionate soul who can easily be loyal and loving when in a secure relationship where she feels she is loved. However, she can become vindictive or bitter when she is scorned. Because this female has such high standards in so many spheres of life, other people rarely come up to her expectations. Still, this is not usually a source of worry to her unless the individual concerned is one with whom she is intimately involved. The Leo woman can show love, forgiveness and kindness to complete strangers or mere acquaintances and yet, may be critical and almost harsh to her loved ones if she feels they have failed her in some way. This is a female who is proud, hard-to-get and expects much from any partner but she has the ability to be self-sacrificing and totally unselfish in a long term commitment. As a mother, she tends to be overly conscientious on occasion, expecting the usual high standards from her children...nevertheless, they will never lack love or affection. There is no doubt that the Leo woman expects a great deal of her family, but she is also prepared to give of her utmost in return. Altogether fascinating, this female is something of an ambitious golden girl who likes to be free and independent...until her heart has been won and then, she is self-sacrificial in her giving. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any potential mate to be gallant, courteous and chivalrous. Proud and domineering from time-to-time, it would not be wise to allow this woman to constantly get her own way. She desires a partner who is ambitious and well-respected in society...and she prefers traditional conformity. Romantic, but often shy of displaying as much, the Leo female can be won with true old-fashioned love and chivalry.

Amazing weekend... increasingly productive week.

(my spelling and grammar are bad today so please forgive what you are about to read)

So I had the most amazing weekend. It was definately a high flying one. I treated myself without a doubt. I bought a fabo pair of CD flamingo red peep toe pumps, a DG leopard print pump with gold embellishment and a pair of stuart weitzman over the knee leather boots, which i have already broken in.

I definately popped champaign! I am really reeling from my Naija experience and my dedication to be more open and try new things. That being said, I did enjoy the maddening of a long island icetea , the sleepiness of reisling, and yes, like I said there was definately champaign flowing. I actually felt nice. Maybe Im a goodie two-shoes or prude, but no more... hehehe The feeling at first is a little worrysome cuz i love control and you seem somewhat out of control and free. I was freely speaking my mind, but the positive thing was that I felt more relaxed and less self-conscious.

I actually made a few new friends. I was introduced to people that i really enjoyed from the begining! I'm usually reserved and dont follow through with getting to know people, though pretty friendly, but these people really won me over. I felt comfortable with them and they felt like they were right up my alley(cul-de-sac or avenue sound nicer).

Oh and I went on a date... was actually relaxing and nice. I am shy sometimes, but i felt like i was on a date with myself. was amazing. We went to see book of eli. reviews were on opposite ends of the spectrum. some gave it A+ but seemed to be clearly religious, other gave an F-... almost a Z, but they were maybe agnostic and seemed so offended by the christian overtones. I LOVED the movie. It was something that really spoke to me. Maybe because I am religeous, but it made me ask myself, what am i really willing to do for you faith, how far am i willing to go for my God because he's willing to GO the distance for me. I also was thankful for the mercies and miracles that he performs each day.

Anyway weekend was fun. week started out slow, but of course has been rising in pace. I finally put myself on a darn schedule. I programmed it into my blackberry with alarms and all. so far i have partially stuck to it. maybe the rest of the week will be more committed.

Happy Hump Day Lovlies!

Friday, January 8, 2010

2010 new beginings

In 2010, I want to start fresh. I have started fresh. Some things are not worth it. Some things jsut take time that it doesnt deserve, so this year is about positivity, growth, and maturity. To all my friends, we can work together and bring positivity. Even if we are not friends yet or are no longer friends, in 2010, that all can change. Its about uplifting eachother and adding to eachother. No negativity can bring me down in Jesus name. I have a vision and God has helped me to set out the plan. I pray the same for you, I Love u all. 2010, the year when we see abundance and reap benefits from the covenants we entered into with God and those we value.

About Me

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I'm Miss Adelaja. I'm a student, an artist, a fashionista, an innovator, and entreprenuer. Watch me as I navigate through this thing called life on a mission to succeed. Who know where it will lead me? US, Naija, Europe, the Moon. Lets go there. I know you will enjoy the ride.